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I'm a single man, I took a decision not to get married or get a girlfriend in my country because my past relationship really hurt me

Oscar33  
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Dear, I understand your pain from past relationships and your hesitation towards future romantic relationships. Everyone has their own life experiences and emotional stories, and we need to respect our own feelings and choices.
Firstly, we need to recognize that past romantic relationships do not necessarily mean that future marriages or partnerships will fail. Each person's emotional journey is unique, and we can learn lessons from past experiences and learn how to better face future challenges and opportunities.
If you are currently not ready to start a new romantic relationship, there is no need to force yourself. Being single does not mean being lonely or unhappy. You can find fulfillment and happiness in other ways, such as pursuing your hobbies, participating in social activities, and making new friends.
However, please remember that self-growth and mental health are always very important, regardless of whether you choose to start a new romantic relationship. You can seek professional counseling or therapy services to help you better understand and manage your emotional needs and difficulties, and improve your mental health.
Most importantly, do not give up hope and belief in your future. No matter what path of life you choose, believe that you have the ability to overcome difficulties and embrace challenges, and create a better life in the future.