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Oscar33  

I'm a single man, I took a decision not to get married or get a girlfriend in my country because my past relationship really hurt me

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钱振超心理咨询师

hello,Jack,I see you here 。I hear you were hurted by the last relationship。

阳光心理咨询师

Hi,Jack, nice to meet u here,too. Welcome to talk to us at anytime if u feel unhappy. We have a specialized team to service people,like u whom need help. Anyway,have a good day.

钟敏心理咨询师

Hi,Jack,no problem,take it easy ,let the time tell you the decision,everyone is changing along the time.

葛惟芳心理咨询师

Hi,Jack,I‘m Yidianling psychological server Ge Weifang.

You said you decided not to get married or get a girlfriend ,because you were hurt by your past relationship .I don’t know what have happened to you ,but I can guess it must be sth. that let you make such a decision .

In fact ,to get married or not isn’t important ,it’s important for you to be happy ,isn’t it ?

If you write your words in Chinese ,many more people will help you .

刘玉姗心理咨询师

Hi.Everything gonna be okay.Take your time,waiting your happiness.

樊鹏鑫心理咨询师

Hi, Jack. Nice to meet you too.
In China as in your country, there are many professional consulting services on this platform, you can also seek some help from many consultants. There may be some problems in language communication, but you can find the consultants you match through their information.
Everyone has the right to choose their own life, choose their own lifestyle, they feel comfortable.
I hope everything goes well with you in China

崔洁心理咨询师

Hi Jack, I’m so sorry to hear that.Perhaps you just hasn’t met someone with similar mindset.

陈秋美心理咨询师

hear your decition. i know you are sad .relax.because your past hurt. so i belive you are blave .i stand with you . thanks for your trust.good luck .everyone can carry an injury..listen to the music.and delicious food .

陈秋美心理咨询师

hi.jack.i see you now.do not sad .you can talk more. i think we can help you .no language barrier.

张宇心理咨询师

Dear, I understand your pain from past relationships and your hesitation towards future romantic relationships. Everyone has their own life experiences and emotional stories, and we need to respect our own feelings and choices.
Firstly, we need to recognize that past romantic relationships do not necessarily mean that future marriages or partnerships will fail. Each person's emotional journey is unique, and we can learn lessons from past experiences and learn how to better face future challenges and opportunities.
If you are currently not ready to start a new romantic relationship, there is no need to force yourself. Being single does not mean being lonely or unhappy. You can find fulfillment and happiness in other ways, such as pursuing your hobbies, participating in social activities, and making new friends.
However, please remember that self-growth and mental health are always very important, regardless of whether you choose to start a new romantic relationship. You can seek professional counseling or therapy services to help you better understand and manage your emotional needs and difficulties, and improve your mental health.
Most importantly, do not give up hope and belief in your future. No matter what path of life you choose, believe that you have the ability to overcome difficulties and embrace challenges, and create a better life in the future.

孙大莹心理咨询师

It's important to take time to heal and process your emotions from your past relationship. Consider seeking therapy or counseling to help you work through these feelings. It's also okay to take a break from dating and focus on yourself. When you feel ready, you can explore new relationships at your own pace, and don't feel pressured to conform to societal expectations.

刘沐心理咨询师

Hi Jack,

Yes, it is absolutely okay to not get married. Marriage is a personal choice and everyone has the right to make decisions about their own life and relationships. Some people choose to get married, while others prefer to remain single, focus on their careers, or pursue other forms of partnership and companionship.

There is no one-size-fits-all path to happiness and fulfillment. What matters most is that you make choices that align with your own values, desires, and goals. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being, regardless of societal expectations or norms. Remember, it's your life, and you have the freedom to live it in a way that brings you the most joy and satisfaction.

Nice writing to you though. Hope my answer would provide you some inspiration as well.

王兴永心理咨询师

你好,Jack Oscar。感谢你与我分享你的想法。我能理解你因为不好的感情经历而不想结婚的想法。但是,婚姻并不是唯一的幸福选择。除了恋爱关系,我们还可以从家人、朋友、同事等人际关系中获得温暖和支持。也许你可以尝试拓展社交圈子,参加一些兴趣小组或活动,结识更多志同道合的人。同时也可以学会沟通、信任和包容,在未来与他人建立更健康、稳定的关系。希望这些建议对你有所帮助。

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